men VS women

Assalammualaikum wbt.

recently i've been listening to this music. bila dengar lagu ni, teringat lagu anuar zain, sedetik lebih, kerana mungkin isi lagu ini lebih kurang sahaja. lagu yang terlebih metafor. yelah mana ada orang sekarang boleh hidup lebih dari seribu tahun kan? most of us died because of the complication of disease related to food. ok, that is not the point here.



saya baru sahaja menghabiskan satu chapter buku tulisan john gray malam tadi (malam tadi oncall di bahagian kecemasan dan trauma). chapter ini berkaitan dengan komunikasi antara venusian and martian. walau kita bercakap bahasa yang sama, tapi masing-masing interpret maksud yang berlainan. cth: bila martian cakap "i need to be alone", he really meant it. however if a venusian said the same words, the meaning is not the same. she might literally said she wants to be alone, but actually she need empathy and someone to talk to. weird kan? and venusian always like to say something with metafor. eg: "you never listen to me!". what she meant is not he never listen to her, she just use the word 'never' to express her greatest disappointment that her partner is not really care about what she said. hyperbola kan?

ok itulah kaitan dengan lagu 'a thosand years' dan 'sedetik lebih'. perempuan suka kepada perkara emosi yang diluar jangkauan minda. itu baru romantik, ye tak? walau hakikatnya dia tahu itu mustahil, tapi sweet words can win a heart right?

berbeza dengan martian. mereka lebih straight forward, tak belok-belok. Dan mereka jarang express their feeling using words.while women shout out loud if she had a problems, but men doesn't. if he encounter a problem, he might said, "i'm ok, everything will be alright". then he hide himself in his cave to seek for solution to the problem. even outside he said he is alright, but he need a private time to think about his problem.

while i was reading this book, when it comes to the venusian part, they are all true about women!
and when it come to the martian part, they all seem very confusing! how can they think or react like that! it doesn't make sense at all!

true and true and true again

we are unique in a different ways. but we are from the same origin, aite?

" Sesungguhnya Kami telah menciptakan manusia  daripada setitis air mani yang bercampur yang Kami (hendak mengujinya dengan perintah dan larangan), kerana itu Kami jadikan dia mendengar dan melihat " Al insan:2

Betapa bijaksananya Allah, mencipta manusia dari origin yang sama, tapi mampu hasilkan produk yang berlainan emosi dan sifat dalamannya. Sangat kagum bila John Gray mengungkapkan setiap sifat dari sudut lelaki dan perempuan yang sangat kompleks. Subhanallah...

see! tak faham kan?

p/s: Seek and learn. banyak lagi ilmu yang masih tak dapat nak kuasai.